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90 Minutes in Heaven by Don Piper (11/20/11): I got this book as a 40th birthday present from Jeff S., a good friend of mine from church. I was already backlogged in the reading department (including Agape Leadership, below), so it took me a while to get to it. In the meantime though, Amanda tore through it pretty fast and really liked it. So I was even more excited to be able to finally get to it. And it did not disappoint me. This book follows the true story of a pastor who gets in a horrific accident with a tractor-trailer, and subsequently dies. Through another man's obedience to pray for him (when stirred to do so) he ended up returning to life. The author takes great care to explain the details of his accident in order to provide as much credibility as possible to his claims of being clinically dead, and also his experience of heaven. The rest of the story follows him through his long and painful physical recovery from the accident, and the process of figuring out what to do with the experiences he encountered and in finding purpose behind them. Admittedly, since I'm a Christian, I did not truly approach it
skeptically. I already believe in Heaven, and the way Mr.
Piper describes what he encountered does not conflict with what I
have read in the Bible and/or what I believe. But as with
other books (such as "This Present Darkness"), even though I already
held these beliefs, reading about them in this manner gives me an
entirely different perspective to them. Having a mental image
of what it will be like to experience Heaven for myself changes the
way I visualize the big picture of life and encourages me to make
decisions that could have a positive affect for myself and others on
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Agape
Leadership by
Robert L. Peterson & Alexander Strauch (11/03/11): Until receiving this book, I had never heard of R.C. Chapman (link is to Wiki entry). And even then, the picture on the cover of it looks like a sad, lonely, perhaps grumpy old man. But he died more than a century ago (in 1902), and cameras weren't becoming popular until the late 1800s or early 1900s, so he was probably in his 90s when this picture was taken of him (he died at the ripe old age of 99). Bad cover picture aside though, the stories that this book contains describe a man that followed Jesus closer than any that I've ever heard of before. He lived a life of discipline, constant prayer, receptiveness to being led by the holy spirit, and complete servitude to God and other people. Even though I consider myself a serious, dedicated Christian who pursues God and desires to follow Jesus, I cannot even fathom being as passionate, selfless, and godly as Mr. Chapman was. Truly, such spiritual strength and dedication as his seems way beyond my grasp. In the end, I don't think that reading this book has
instantly transformed me into a better Christian, but the standards
by which I measure myself have assuredly been raised, and oddly
enough I feel blessed because of it. How to Win Friends and
Influence People by
Dale Carnegie (09/25/11): In all honesty, when I first heard the title, I pictured a slimy salesman or politician, striving to manipulate people and finding new ways of conniving his/her client. And yes, it's true that the ideas that are presented in the book certainly could be used as tools to accomplish selfish purposes. I think though that if more people were to use these techniques, then the world would be a better, more peaceful place to live in. This is because the methods promote a more graceful and gentle approach to persuasion and conflict resolution. As for myself, I have always had a natural disposition to be a
better than average listener (I think). And after receiving
training in mediation and peer consulting at UCF, these natural
tendencies were still improved upon. So truth be told I didn't
believe I had a whole lot to gain by reading this book ("Yeah, yeah,
yeah, I already know all this stuff"). But I now realize just
how much I still have to learn about interpersonal communication and
my ability to influence others, and reading this book is definitely
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Same Kind of Different as Me by
Ron Hall and
Denver Moore (9/2/10): I heard about this book on a woman's blog who is an avid reader. I must say that it was most excellent. The funny thing about it is that I didn't even know it was a true story until the end, when reading an interview with the authors. This is the first book I've read on my Kindle. The benefits are
that the Kindle is light weight and easy to hold, and the cost of
the book is cheaper. After finishing the book though I
realized one big drawback to using a Kindle - you can't pass the
book on to someone else! Sure, I can let someone (like my
wife) borrow my Kindle to read it, but then if I want to read
another book on it then we can't both read at the same time. I
think I'll stick to paperback next time.
The Help by
Kathryn Stockett (8/11/10): The story is told from three different points of view, and all of them are women. Not only that, but 95% of the sub-characters are women too. Taking place in the deep American South of the 1960s, it delves into the life of two black maids and one white writer who attempts to write and publish a book about their lives. While the book was fiction, I can't help but wonder how much truth there is to the emotions, actions, roles, and experiences in it. I have heard and read about the history of segregation and racism before, but it was gratefully never part of my life experiences. Black kids in my schools were treated with just as much love and respect as everybody else in the class, if not more. So while reading historical facts provides knowledge, it produced very little comprehension. While I never disbelieved the history, I have a hard time really absorbing it as a reality. But walking in their shoes, even if was only based on truth, gave me a whole new appreciation of what black people experienced during the trials and difficulties of racial desegregation. As a whole, I loved this book. It was well written,
emotionally gripping, had a positive message, a slight underlying
spiritual tone (for Christianity, but against hypocrisy), and
epitomized the greatest reason why I love reading - to put myself in
someone else's shoes and to see what life was like for them.
To gain a better understanding of different places and times.
To not only use my imagination, but to expand my knowledge of
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The Lovely Bones by
Alice Sebold (1/26/10): I remember this book receiving rave reviews when it first came out. Amanda was able to borrow and read it at around that time, but I was still in graduate school and didn't have the luxury of reading for pleasure. Recently though, when talking about the newly released movie with a friend from church, he offered to lend me his copy of the book. So here, at long last, was my chance. Was it all it was built up to be though? It was definitely a really good book, with a unique angle of narration and some very interesting scenes and characters. My only gripe would be with the author's perspective on heaven and the afterlife - there were just too many questions that the book leaves not only unanswered but even unmentioned. But then again I also recognize that that is not the intent of the story. Just let it go Michael, just let it go. I think the biggest reason why I (and probably the critics) liked
this book though is that it was not only unique, but unpredictable.
I thought I knew what the ending would be and where some of the
characters would end up well in advance of the ending. But it
threw me for a loop on many levels, while still leaving me satisfied
with the conclusion.
Monster by
Frank Peretti (9/13/09): After that, the book was definitely different than anything else I have read - telling a very weird, but interesting story about bigfoot-like creatures. In the end, the whole premise behind this odd but enjoyable book is basically to make numerous arguments against evolution. And as with This Present Darkness, Mr. Peretti does a pretty good job of using the readers imagination and visualization to help make his points. While this was definitely not in the league of his "..Darkness"
novels, it was still a well told, interesting story and also a
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The Pillars of the Earth by
Ken Follett (8/8/09): At nine hundred and eighty three pages, this book was pretty lengthy. Nonetheless, I loved almost every minute and page of it. The best part about it, as with probably any good book, was the characters. The benefit of a book this size is that it allows the reader to follow the characters' lives through many years and many life adventures. There were probably a dozen or so main characters that the author allowed us to follow through various ages, stages, and levels of interaction with each other's lives. Ken masterfully led them through a myriad of joyous, suspenseful, and frustrating moments, but he was keen enough to avoid making the suspense so thick as to be torturous or annoying. Their adventures were different enough to be intensely interesting, but not unbelievable or ridiculously heroic. It also had a sufficient quantity of tragedies to make the story more believable, but not enough to give the plot a feeling of overwhelming dread. I also found the time period of the story took immensely interesting. It was easy to become engrossed in the battles, politics, architecture, settings, and stories of 12th century England, and some other parts of Europe too. Many of the situations and circumstances were distinctly unique to the era and the locale, which made it feel like a bit of an educational experience too. Even the conclusion of the book wrapped things up nicely. My only gripe is that the main villian was allowed to get away with more throughout the story than I found reasonable or believable, although it did help make the end more gratifying. The other protagonists also arrived at a gratifying conclusion. I think Mr. Follett achieved an fantastic balance
of every aspect of a great story. And I am grateful to have
read his work of literature.
Icy Sparks by
Gwyn Hyman Rubio (4/29/09): If I were to extract a message from the story, it would be that no matter how bad life seems to be as a kid, it will in all probability improve with age. Or maybe this: Although you may think you are cursed, when you finally get over your own selfishness and pride to submit to God's will for your life, then you will become a blessing to many. Taking the message into consideration makes it better, to be
sure. But while I liked it, I still didn't love it. It
wasn't a complete waste of time, but I would have rather read
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The Chip by
T.R. Reid (7/22/08): My dad found this book at a
sale that the Nashville Public Library was holding, and thought I
might find it interesting. He sent it to me while I was busy
with grad school though, so I didn't read it until recently (many years later),
when I was looking for a new book to read and came across it again. It tells the story of how the microchip was invented and the problems that it was intended to overcome. It also gives a great deal of detail about the men who participated in it's invention and the growth of the industry on an international scale. Many times I found myself telling Amanda with great excitement about little facts and stories that were presented in this book. Of course, she would respond by blinking her eyes with boredom, shaking her head in sympathy and then continuing on with whatever task she was previously involved with. So maybe this book isn't for people with little or no interest in technology. But I originally expected this book to be fairly boring to me too,
and while I won't say that it was as interesting as a James
Patterson novel, it was far better than I expected.
Truthfully, I wish I would have read it before I started college.
I believe it would have inspired me to a greater level of interest
in my field and even learning in general. In fact, I would go
so far as to say that it should be required reading for anyone
considering a career in the Electrical Engineering field.
This book is one man's memoirs about the experiences, stories, and
life philosophies that his favorite college professor shared with
him during the last months of his life. It's a quick read,
with short chapters and many heart wrenching moments. It will
most likely either change your life's outlook or renew it. A
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The Devil's Teardrop by Jeffery
Deamer: Very different
and interesting. I had no idea that there was so much strategy, science,
and analysis to the literary branch of forensics. The added relationship
story wasn't overplayed. The characters were well developed.
The story was mostly believable (there were some parts that were far fetched,
but that's to be expected). It was a nice change from the usual cop
vs. bad guy book. I liked and would recommend it. Easy Prey by John Sandford:
Overall, a secular testosterone
novel. By this I mean that the main character was an
independently wealthy tough guy who possessed rugged, even slightly
battle scarred good
looks, a nice house, a Bronco, and a Porsche. When he wasn't
working
on the case, he spent his time trying to figure out which woman to
decide
to have sex with, or maybe even a relationship. Basically the
world
was his playground. The various people skills he employed in
progressing
through the solution of the case was the only redeeming quality in the
book. But not enough for my recommendation. The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis:
An interesting perspective
of the afterlife. This fairly short book presents many people after
death, going through the process of choosing something, or somewhere, besides
heaven. Their own earthly tendencies keep them from getting, or once
they're present, from staying in heaven. If they make it there, people
who have previously passed away attempt to persuade them, to get them to
understand that they're better off there, to rid themselves of certain
of their earthly personality traits so they can stay. I know it sounds
odd, and it is, but pleasantly so. I'd definitely recommend it. Les Miserable by Victor Hugo: This is quite possibly my
favorite book of all time. I read it a long time ago, but the general idea sounds
a lot like The Count of Monte Cristo (below), so I figured I'd write about it
now. This story follows one man's journey from rags to riches, with one
identity to then another (like below). One of the great things about this
book though, is how it mirrors and models the process of becoming a Christian,
and the lifestyle of living as one. The battle of the main character isn't
for revenge, but to live a righteous life while also taking care of his daughter
and protecting them both from his past. Liked it. Loved it.
Read it if you get a chance.
Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis:
What a fantastic
book about the principles of Christianity from a non-Biblical perspective!
The gospel and other Christian issues are presented in a way that makes
it clear and logical by using general human characteristics and analogies.
It's fairly short in length, but deep enough to make you want to take your
time to think through his ideas. I've scanned several pages from
his book and linked them to the web pages of my thoughts which are applicable. The Testament by John Grisham:
I've read
quite a few John Grisham books by now, and this one ranks maybe in the
top-middle of them as far as my preferences go. I liked exploring one of
the central themes, which was the psychological effect that obtaining a large
sum of unclaimed (for tax purposes) money could have on an otherwise normal,
logical, law abiding individual. I also appreciated the non-definitive
conclusion at the end, knowing that in a year from the ending, the main
character will know the final outcome of his discovery. This Present Darkness by Frank Peretti:
I've heard that
this book was a popular read among Christians. I don't know where we even
got the book from, but seeing it on our shelf, I decided to give it a try.
Well, it didn't take long into the book to see why it's so popular. As a
fictional work, it portrays the spiritual realm in a way that is perhaps far
fetched, but quite possibly somewhat accurate. The concept of spiritual
warfare isn't a new one for anyone who has spent a decent amount of time in
church or reading the Bible. Reading it though, and hence visualizing it
in a story format really caused me to have a greater conviction of what effect
spiritual forces and battles could have on the physical world. It truly
inspired me to become more passionate about prayer and to look at the problems
and difficulties of this world with a different perspective. We Were the Mulvaneys by Joyce Carol Oates:
At times frustrating.
I love her descriptive style of writing and intense character development.
However, there were moments when I literally skipped a chapter to come
back to it later because she skipped around in the story so much, going
back to a previous moment in history to give insight to a relationship
that didn't really matter in that point of events. In the end though,
most of the characters redeemed themselves and I was happy to have read
it. I also appreciate the ways that she presents the religion (or lack
thereof) of her characters into very complex and difficult circumstances of
life. Wild at Heart by John Eldredge: A must read for all Christian men. The author describes (accurately, in my opinion) how the Christian culture has weakened the fighting spirit and attempts to all but eliminate the manliness of men in the church. He explains the necessity for us, as men, to take our natural desire for adventure and not only keep it active in our everyday lives, but also and more importantly to apply it to our spiritual lives. In essence, to approach Christianity as a battle that we must fight. This book is a rally call to pick up our weapons (the Bible, prayer, etc) and gather the soldiers (fellow Christian men) in order to protect ourselves and our loved ones from, and eventually conquer the enemy that would have us fall. In the end, it's not only spiritually inspirational, but is also an encouragement to search for our passions and pursue them, while trusting in God to guide in that pursuit.
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